December 8 ~ Be Kind to All
“To be kind to all, to like many and love a few, to be needed and wanted by those we love, is certainly the nearest we can come to happiness.”
~ Mary Stuart

Watercolor portrait of Mary Stuart in a red embroidered gown against soft golden light. Mary Stuart (1542–1587) was born on this day at Linlithgow Palace and became Queen of Scotland when she was six days old. Her life unfolded across countries and courts, shaped by loyalty, faith, and decisions made under intense pressure.

She once said, “We fend for ourselves. Neighbors help neighbors.” That spirit carried her through her early marriage to Francis, the dauphin of France. At sixteen she walked into Notre-Dame in Paris as a young bride. A year later she was queen of France. Within another year, Francis died of an ear infection. She mourned him with the line, “The sweet smile on his face up in a cloud I see,” then returned home to Scotland dressed in black.

Known for her sharp wit and quiet presence, Mary loved horse riding and dancing. The people of Scotland recognized the grace she carried and sensed that she ruled with both her mind and her heart.

Her reign unfolded during a turbulent time. A devout Catholic, she did not accept the Protestant Reformation or the legitimacy of her cousin Elizabeth, daughter of Henry VIII and Anne Boleyn, as Queen of England. “He who does not keep faith where it is due, will hardly keep it where it is not due,” she said.

The cousins’ rivalry grew into an historical tragedy. Allegations of conspiracy and murder led to Mary’s arrest and charges of treason.

Awaiting execution in her English prison, she embroidered the words, “In my End is my Beginning,” a reflection on life and death. Purple thistles, often called Queen Mary’s tears, still grow on the ground where she was beheaded.

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